01 August 2007

Sadness

I was a little sad all day yesterday. I invited my neighbor and her daughter to the beach, and she in turn invited some more moms to come along. I don't mind, more kids for my kids to play with. The girls certainly had a great time in the sun and sand. The problem is that they are all from the Bible Church down the road and I am the "Lutheran pastor's wife" (this is how I am ALWAYS introduced--why not "this is my neighbor Erin"?).

Our conversation topics seemed to settle on theology. I just listened. They believe in the rapture and don't baptize their babies. They don't believe in the Lord's Supper ("it's just a remembrance thing") and they were all talking about their personal "walks with the Lord". They think that Lutherans have it all wrong-- "believing in all that man-made stuff that is not in the Bible". I know that it is not my job to set them straight, but I couldn't think of one thing to say in defense of Lutheranism, in defense of the richness I "experience" every Sunday through the liturgy, hymnody, and the preaching of the Gospel. Where would I even start with these women? I felt pathetic on my drive home.

1 comment:

Jesse Krusemark said...

Yeah, I guess it's not really your job to set them straight, but as you seemed to indicate, you'd like to have something to say in defense of Lutheranism if possible. I think a good thing to do on that whole issue of one's "walk" is to show them how up and down a Christian's real walk is. We aren't on some linear path of increasing holiness and closeness to God. We often fall back all the way to rock bottom. Show them that any "process" we make along the path is God's work. When they find out that your religion has a lot more to do with God than theirs, they might be more interested.